The Lost Art of Listening

How many times have you found your attention wandering when listening to a boring speaker? How many times have you nodded your head in understanding even though you may have missed the main point? There is nothing wrong or irregular in this behavior. It happens to all of us, all the time. We may hear […]

Charm Your Way Through Life

I flirt all day long. I flirt with my audience when I speak, I flirt with all the women I meet, and yes, I flirt with men if I want to make them like me. As a dating coach for men, I talk a lot about how to build attraction – which is essentially how […]

The Quick Fix Mentality: (Trap)

You have most likely heard a child say, “I want it now!” After that, you may watch the child go into a tantrum if the child doesn’t get it. This is the quick fix mentality. When a parent caves into the demands just to shut up the child, many times it leads to more of […]

Dreams – The Mysteries And The Truth

Since time, immemorial people used to discuss dreams with awe and wonderment. Dreams were supernatural experiences for the ancient thinkers. They believed that dreams were prophetic. In those days interpretation of dreams was a valued profession. During the prehistoric period, both the idealistic and the materialistic philosophers had shown great interest in interpreting the dreams.

Everything You Need Lies Within

How would you like to attract virtually anything you desire in your life? Throughout my life, I have gained a wealth of knowledge and a passion for helping women do just that as well as discover themselves and who they really are. Over the past four years, I worked for one of the world’s leading […]

Defence Mechanism: Denial

Defence mechanisms are used to stop the ego mind from becoming overwhelmed, as if they were not utilised, the mind may not be able to cope with the pain that is arising. So they are not good or bad or right or wrong, they simply there to ensure that one survives. Denial will be used […]

Achieving the Life You Desire

Achieving the life you desire takes time, work, love and patience. No matter what you do and no matter how fast you do it, you will not achieve your perfect life overnight. Your life will always be a work in progress. Do not beat up on yourself if you feel that you are not where […]

Forever Young I Want To Be

Ageist depression can occur at any age and stage of life; some feel too old, whilst others feel far too young and inexperienced to make an impact in their or others’ lives. Despite our age, let us acknowledge this: We are forever young: God sees each of us as forever young. We never outgrow being […]